tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post2938984455348133196..comments2024-03-29T01:20:01.552+08:00Comments on A Happy Mum: A letter to my baby - I wish you were still here~Summer~http://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-73981031992238479512014-10-08T20:18:07.593+08:002014-10-08T20:18:07.593+08:00Thanks Sarah's mummy! I think many people have...Thanks Sarah's mummy! I think many people have had it worse, so I still count my blessings now and then thanks so much for your kind comment!~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-13522435308233020242014-10-08T20:17:09.344+08:002014-10-08T20:17:09.344+08:00Thanks much, Dawn! I agree, it's such an emoti...Thanks much, Dawn! I agree, it's such an emotional journey and you can never expect the twists and turns. Thanks for the kindness, appreciate your comment!~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-85067436961060717662014-10-08T20:16:03.765+08:002014-10-08T20:16:03.765+08:00Thanks much, Grace. Haha, soon you might find a ha...Thanks much, Grace. Haha, soon you might find a handful of not so happy, but always heartfelt posts. Thanks so much for reading and leaving this kind comment.~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-44750889273084248842014-10-08T19:53:30.433+08:002014-10-08T19:53:30.433+08:00What a touching read! I wasn't expecting such ...What a touching read! I wasn't expecting such a post when I chanced upon this blog, 'cos it's titled 'A Happy Mum'. Thank you for teaching us how to stay positive despite unfortunate circumstances. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-21643901411130053422014-08-09T15:08:48.321+08:002014-08-09T15:08:48.321+08:00Hi Summer, thanks for sharing your heartfelt journ...Hi Summer, thanks for sharing your heartfelt journey with us. It takes lots of courage to share and go through it all. Being mothers, I feel your roller-coaster emotional journey. Big hugs!Dawn @ Homeschool Craftshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03741797311243587963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-89244333654618903232014-05-28T17:01:20.106+08:002014-05-28T17:01:20.106+08:00Hi Summer, just chanced upon your blog. I teared w...Hi Summer, just chanced upon your blog. I teared while reading your post. I cannot imagine the pain you have gone through. Thanks for sharing and for being a strong mummy!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-45775045645483109942013-07-15T11:41:21.050+08:002013-07-15T11:41:21.050+08:00Hihi! Teck Chuan, right? Thanks for dropping by an...Hihi! Teck Chuan, right? Thanks for dropping by and great to know your wifey enjoys reading what I write. Motivates me to go on! =) Hope life is good for you and your family!~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-44844466608494304242013-07-15T11:40:33.601+08:002013-07-15T11:40:33.601+08:00Thanks Karen! =) I will always remember this even ...Thanks Karen! =) I will always remember this even though life goes on. =)~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-42693086792018640182013-07-07T22:14:41.211+08:002013-07-07T22:14:41.211+08:00I'm sure she was proud to be your daughter.
B...I'm sure she was proud to be your daughter.<br /><br />Btw, my wife loves your blog, keep writing and inspiring. Dew (Leo Club)noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-49200167576329118482013-06-05T11:06:12.456+08:002013-06-05T11:06:12.456+08:00My heart clenched and I teared after reading this!...My heart clenched and I teared after reading this! Stay strong! 加油!Karenhttp://mamemmia.blogspot.sgnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-75447758053553252282013-05-31T17:16:52.263+08:002013-05-31T17:16:52.263+08:00Oh yeah, you bet I hug these two so tight till the...Oh yeah, you bet I hug these two so tight till they can't breathe each day! =) For all the times I scream and shout at them like a mad woman, deep down, I appreciate and treasure them more than I can say too.~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-667775367116495822013-05-31T15:30:33.472+08:002013-05-31T15:30:33.472+08:00Im going to give my two little girls a big hug and...Im going to give my two little girls a big hug and kiss when they wake up, just like I k ow you do to your two precious darlings tooAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12140142215352358254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-11177770893582724912012-02-10T08:10:16.031+08:002012-02-10T08:10:16.031+08:00Hi Sue, thanks for the very sweet message and insp...Hi Sue, thanks for the very sweet message and inspirational story. I'm so happy for you that you have five wonderful kids (and grand kid) now! I can't imagine how hard it was for you, but you are right, we go on and we grow. Thanks much for your touch of love, it's people like you who make life easier to bear and so much more beautiful. Cheers!~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-80808865696155805872012-02-10T06:38:36.861+08:002012-02-10T06:38:36.861+08:00Dearest Summer, I felt I had to respond in the hop...Dearest Summer, I felt I had to respond in the hope that you will not feel too alone. While your doctor was correct in that many pregnancies end in miscarriages, it does not make having one yourself any easier. I have 5 wonderful, amazing, healthy children. All of whom I adore and am totally wrapped up in and still in awe of having brought into this world. My oldest now has a child of her own, so that makes me a grandmother as well! But, there was a time when I thought I might only be able to have my oldest child. I had always wanted a bunch of kids, and my husband and I looked forward to lots of kids in the house. When my oldest, Morgan,was one, I found myself pregnant again. When I was 3 months along, on a routine trip to the doctor, he was unable to find a heartbeat. I was sent for an ultrasound where it was confirmed that my baby had died. I was devastated. My body would not release the child, so I had to undergo a D&C to remove it. 6 months later, I once again found myself pregnant, and again, at 3 months the baby died and again a D&C was preformed. Then again. 3 times I became pregnant and 3 times lost the babe at 3 months. The 2nd one had been twins. At this point I was completely at a loss. I felt my body had somehow betrayed me. The doctors put me through many uncomfortable tests to see if they could find out why this was happening. I had a perfectly healthy daughter, the result of a perfectly normal, healthy pregnancy. They could find no physical reason for this to be happening. Finally, a doctor suggested that it could be a virus. So, not knowing where this virus might be, both my husband and I were put on antibiotics. After we had finished the medication, we were told to try again. We have never had a problem becoming pregnant, and soon found out we were. 9 months later, our beautiful daughter, Jordan was born. Then 2 years later, Matthew joined us. 7 years passed before our lives settled down a bit and we were blessed with the arrival of Alley, and then the surprise of Zac when I was 40! We have been blessed very thoroughly. At one time, when my husband was going through some difficult things, he was prayed for by a group of people in what we call 'laying on of hands'. One of the participants had a vision during this. They saw my husband in what they were lead to believe was heaven. He was being given a bundle, and that bundle was a baby. This to me was a wonderful affirmation that we will see our lost children again one day. We will be an even bigger family when we are all reunited in our eternal home.<br />I hope my story has in some way helped you while you are going through your loss. It is hard, but we go on and we grow through these things. Many blessing.Honey and Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12855946783982835986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-76887594620338601322012-01-30T19:54:56.840+08:002012-01-30T19:54:56.840+08:00@DancingMommy
Thanks much, I guess I still need to...@<a href="#c1774695435247920239" rel="nofollow">DancingMommy</a><br />Thanks much, I guess I still need to be stronger. Appreciate your sweet concern lots. Thank you!!~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-17746954352479202392012-01-30T15:45:55.782+08:002012-01-30T15:45:55.782+08:00Summer, I cried when I read this. You are so stron...Summer, I cried when I read this. You are so strong. Your motherly love is unwavering. *big hugs*YummyMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15064929952829742372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-83189104157572713512011-11-05T08:52:28.885+08:002011-11-05T08:52:28.885+08:00Life moves on and dear, you were wonderful through...Life moves on and dear, you were wonderful throughout this tough period already. Yeap. Guess fate doesn't work to plan sometimes. We'll always keep this memory of bb in our minds, ok?~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-86928971273911182732011-10-17T06:01:44.056+08:002011-10-17T06:01:44.056+08:00Thanks for being a strong gal thruout. i know it h...Thanks for being a strong gal thruout. i know it had been hard on u. it aches me to see u teared but i cant do anything. i tried my best dear. and i will missed u too baby. Sorry i didnt spend as much attention to u as ur elder sister. and we didnt even gave u a name. lets think of one yah? Fate?JJnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-22968134190962315012011-10-15T02:42:56.736+08:002011-10-15T02:42:56.736+08:00@gingerbreadhouseonsesamestreet
Thanks gal! You ar...@<a href="#c3465320210906077524" rel="nofollow">gingerbreadhouseonsesamestreet</a><br />Thanks gal! You are just a few steps away too, hehe. I'm really okie. Catch ya around soon!~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-34653202109060775242011-10-14T23:33:18.501+08:002011-10-14T23:33:18.501+08:00Hey girl, glad to see you picking yourself up so q...Hey girl, glad to see you picking yourself up so quickly. Stay strong. And if u need support, I'm (really) just a phone call away.<br /><br />FtAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-81271107510673929162011-10-14T04:46:23.042+08:002011-10-14T04:46:23.042+08:00Thanks much babe,. I'm fine, dun worry. Hope t...Thanks much babe,. I'm fine, dun worry. Hope things are going well for you over there!~Summer~https://www.blogger.com/profile/07478137784353655124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6546965252487257512.post-30953004281641031902011-10-14T03:42:35.613+08:002011-10-14T03:42:35.613+08:00Hi Shuang,
I'm sorry to learn about this sad...Hi Shuang, <br /><br />I'm sorry to learn about this sad news. Do take care of yourself and rest well.<br /><br />-BinnyBeaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09852094122414942028noreply@blogger.com