The Japanese culture, etiquette and beliefs have always been of interest to me. I admire how they place importance on family values and how children are raised to understand the significance of obedience, responsibility, humility and respect for elders. Unlike other cultures that emphasise on the “nuclear family”, Japanese embrace the “continuing family”. Even if an extended family does not live together, parents and grandparents should live in close proximity so they can carry over a bowl of hot soup.
Today, I wish to share with you more about Hinamatsuri ("hina" meaning doll, "matsuri" meaning festival), which is the Japanese Dolls Festival celebrated on 3 March to pray for the health and happiness of girls. Coming from a mum of two daughters, this is a perfect time for me to strengthen my bond with the kids and wish for them the best in their lives.
Hinamatsuri has a long history. The tradition started in the Heian ("peace and tranquillity") period in the Japanese history from 794 to 1185. Back then, Japanese believed that dolls could be alive and had bad spirits in them. Roots of the Hinamatsuri can be found in an old tradition called "hina nagashi" or "doll floating" where people made straw hina dolls and set them floating down the river, believing that this would take away all their woes together with the bad spirits.
Families celebrate this festival by setting up Hina-ningyo, ornamental dolls on a beautiful display called Hina-kazari and dedicate peach blossoms to them. These dolls are dressed in costumes of the imperial court during the Heian period.
There are usually five or seven tiers, depending on which prefecture the Japanese is from, and each platform consists of different dolls with different meanings. There is a belief that if you don't put away the Hina-ningyo after 3 March, it will result in a late marriage for the daughter.
During Hinamatsuri, families will share a meal of ushiojiru (clear clam soup), shiro sake (white fermented rice wine), hishi-mochi (diamond shaped rice cakes) and also enjoy sweet treats called hina-arare. Hishi-mochi are coloured in pink (implies peach flowers), white (implies snow), and green (implies new growth). The way clam shells fit perfectly together, ushiojiru is the symbol of a united and ideal couple, and parents wish for their daughters to find a good match in life.
|Clockwise from top left: Hishi-moshi (image credit), shirosake (image credit), hina-arare (image credit) and ushiojiru (image credit)|
Chirashizushi, also known as scattered sushi, is also eaten during Hinamatsuri. It is a bowl of rice topped with a variety of sashimi or colorful garnishes mixed in a bowl. The hina-version of chirashizushi comes with pink toppings which symbolise good health and beauty.
Let's light the lanterns
Let's set peach flowers
Five court musicians are playing flutes and drums
Today is a joyful Dolls' Festival
Now, isn't it awesome that we get to celebrate Hinamatsuri here in Singapore too? Thanks to Liang Court who hosted the All Girls' Party, we were invited to a Sunday afternoon of fun as we bonded, laughed and discovered more about their customs.
There was also a live singing performance on stage by Merri and Yuki, who came all the way from Okinawa, and enthralled the audience with their catchy and melodious tunes. We especially loved their soothing rendition of the popular song Nada Sousou (涙そうそう) sang by singer Natsukawa Rimi (夏川りみ), which our local singer Joi Chua had sung the Chinese version titled 陪我看日出.
We had fun visiting the different booths and participating in the activities. Angel enjoyed decorating a huge piece of cracker with sugar syrup and lots of colourful, well, sugar. A little too sweet for our liking, but it was the process that mattered. For Ariel, it was obvious to see which booth she loved best, judging from the oohs and aahs she gave whenever we walked past it - Balloon Sculpting! She got a cute flower and held it like a gem, even when she fell asleep.
casual summer kimono) for the first time and I really loved how the girls look!
Disclosure: This is a sponsored conversation between Liang Court and A Happy Mum. All opinions are my own.